Bruce M. Di Marsico, the creator of Option, died Monday, December 4, . The cause of unhappiness is a belief. What happens, no matter how. 1 [Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh Nielsen] on *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. The Option Method.
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Time with him was mystical and transforming. He was blunt and straightforward, but always in a way that was respectful and to the point. The Option Method is not unlike the above, but its questions are more specific and personally applicable to the person being helped. I created the Option Method for happiness. Happiness is the freedom to be as we are, however we are; richer or poorer, in sickness or in health, gaining or losing, succeeding or failing, wanting or not wanting, approving or not approving, forever.
The belief goes like this: But there was something more profound for me. The current event correlates to current emotions only insofar as it relates to imagined future feelings. Bruce Di Marsico left behind a rich legacy of his voluminous writings on the nature of happiness and unhappiness and his blueprint for achieving happiness through The Option Method.
The Option Method is not about optuon questions.
The Principals and Philosophy of The Option Method: A Practical Guide by Bruce M. Di Marsico
Nearer the end of our time together in physical reality on planet earth, I went to visit Bruce at his house. Find out more about the audio CD. Looking for d books? Barnaby was showing his books.
Di Marsico, the creator of Option, died Monday, December 4,after a long illness. The belief that unhappiness is preferable to happiness happiness being seen as some form of being crazyor the belief that not being unhappy was contradictory to a personally held value, is the dynamic of all unhappiness.
Following the introductory and intermediate Volumes 1 and 2, Volume 3 delves deeper into the nature of happiness and unhappiness in nine parts: Unhappiness, in fact, means that I believe that I do, or want, or think, or feel a way that is bad for me. The belief that we have to be unhappy is the only cause. He describes the difference between wanting and needing.
His widow, Deborah Mendel, has put together his most succinct work, writings maesico he had evolved and refined over the thirty some odd years metbod shared Option with us.
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I will be unhappy about this in the future because when certain things I do not want or do not like happen I will feel a way ,ethod is bad for me. The examples are countless but follow this paradigm.
It was unique and in the total context of who he was and how he was will never, to my mind, be duplicated. He never felt obliged to explain himself in the slightest, and yet he would spend whatever time it took to explore his motives and the responses of others in the service of helping them clarify some possible unhappiness they were experiencing. A powerful man with a profound gift.
I traveled through his eyes, and his voice as he spoke ageless wisdom, guiding me through myself, and changing me forever. We are afraid that something proves we are bad for ourselves in the sense that we are in some way against what we are for, and for what we are against.
It just so happens, that when people realize they have a methd in their emotions, it makes a difference to opfion. He loved to love.
Unhappiness & Depression by Bruce Di Marsico
Visit our Beautiful Books page and find lovely books for kids, photography lovers and more. I recalled the moments in his kitchen speaking about really nothing much at all: And always, always, I felt this enormous stream of kindness and compassion emanating from him. We merely believe we need to have things or avoid things in order to avoid unhappiness, which we would not have to optioh if we did not believe we needed to be unhappy.
Since then the Option Method has been taught to teachers, psychologists, therapists, social workers, clergy and other Option Method Master Teachers as an additional tool in their professions.
Product details Format Paperback pages Dimensions Admittedly, these unhappy emotions seem to happen to us. Which brings me to the final part of this reminiscence. Sitting by his side for over twenty years in his groups, classes and workshops, I never tired of his lectures. We’re featuring millions of their reader ratings on our book pages to help you find your new favourite book. The belief in unhappiness is the belief in being wrong for oneself.
This simple questioning method discloses to the sufferers that they ddi the determiner of their feelings. That is the beauty and the gift of what Bruce has left for us. I never spent time with Bruce without uncovering another unhappy assumption. I remember you Bruce, with love, with gratitude and with happiness.